Hyrum had an English unit on idioms at school a while back. These lessons really are important for kids who struggle with understanding language that is not literal, so of course they worked doubly hard with Hyrum to help him understand what idioms are all about and how people use them- as well as the translation of common idioms.
Hyrum's teachers did a fantastic job! Hyrum really grasped the concept! Then he applied it...
All of the sudden, Hyrum started yelling, "I HAVEN'T ANY MAMA!!" and whining in a very specific manner. He would sometimes do it randomly, but usually when he was frustrated. We (teachers and parents) were perplexed. I had spent a week in the hospital with Nate lately- was Hyrum feeling abandoned?
We asked Hyrum what it means, but all he would say in explanation is "that is a tantrum idiom!"
Finally, while watching one of his current favorite movies, "The Little Princess" (awesome, right?) we discovered the "translation." Lottie, the four-year-old girl at school, yells "I HAVEN'T ANY MAMA!" while throwing a huge tantrum. That was Hyrum's favorite scene in the whole show. He played it over and over again, laughing his head off.
What a kid. How do you explain that it is only an idiom if
everyone knows what it means?
Hyrum is funny about language. He will not allow anyone, even movies or songs, say the word "it" in his presence. Or "sorry", or "accident", or most contractions (hey, just like Baljeet!) He will stop the conversation, make a little screeeecch/crash sound, and say "donotsaytheword_____!" Then the conversation may continue. Do it (oops) too many times in a single conversation and he will be in a really bad mood for the next five minutes.
It is great that he is progressing so well with his language skills that we can now have conversations (especially on his favorite topics) and he can understand what we want. But I do miss a few things: his "Jubba Jubba" language and accompanying lectures, his curiously-chosen replacement words, and of course, childhood mispronunciations: "cali-pill-iter" was my favorite- he said that (instead of caterpillar) clear up until he was ten. Maybe I encouraged it a little. ;o)
(last November behind Grandma's house)